Are you searching for meaning in the wrong places? Here are the 4 real sources of meaning—and why most of us miss them.
No matter how many people like you, how successful you are, or how perfect your life looks on paper, you might still feel like a deeper sense of meaning is missing. That’s because research shows that humans consistently find deep, lasting meaning in four places—and none of them have anything to do with achieving, earning, getting others’ approval, or doing what you were told you “should.”
In this article, we’ll unpack each of those four sources; explore how modern culture seduces us away from them; and demystify how we can meaningfully reconnect with them—particularly during times of transition—to find the North Star we didn’t realize we were missing.
Outgrowing What’s No Longer For You: 3 Steps for Brave Transitions in Relationships, Work, and Life
If you’re going through a transition right now—outgrowing a relationship, career, friend group, or way of life—and you’re experiencing a lot of self-doubt, self-criticism, or shame—this article breaks down the process that has helped me make sense of, and proceed bravely through, some of the hardest transitions I’ve ever faced.
You’ll learn how to get clarity on where your transition is coming from; build courage to move forward in a way that aligns with your values; and find conviction to stay strong, even when your path is different from the path your family, community, or culture wants for you.
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