FROM OUTGROWING
TO BECOMING:

Finding Clarity in Identity Crisis

MAY 27 | 5-7pm PT | REcording AVAILABLE

What if this unraveling wasn’t a disruption to your LIFE’s path⁠—but a necessary part of it?

When you’re outgrowing who you’ve been, this workshop helps you find meaning and clarity in the midst of change.

Join us live:

Wednesday, May 27
5 ⁠—7pm Pacific Time
Hosted on Zoom

CAN’T ATTEND LIVE?
THE WORKSHOP WILL BE RECORDED AND MADE AVAILABLE TO EVERYONE WHO PURCHASES A TICKET WITHIN 48 HOURS OF THE LIVE EVENT.

Recording
Available

You’re outgrowing who you’ve been. 

A burnout, a breakup, a big disruption—something turned your world⁠ upside down. Now, your old stories of who you are⁠, and how you want to live, have stopped working, but the new ones haven’t formed yet.

You feel lost. Stuck. Uncertain of who you are and what’s next⁠⁠—craving meaning, direction, and a path forward.

Whether you call it an identity crisis, a transition, or a “what am I doing with my life?” moment, these in-between spaces can feel like disorienting free-falls—but they’re not random. Across psychology, philosophy, and myth, identity crises⁠ are understood as powerful initiations: thresholds into more wholeness, authenticity, and aliveness.

Combining education with hands-on exercises and rich community discussion, From Outgrowing to Becoming is a two-hour, interactive workshop designed to help you step over that threshold and find meaning and clarity in this season of becoming. 

About The Workshop


At this workshop, you will:

💡 Understand the identity crisis in a new way.

We’ll explore the psychological and existential importance of the identity crisis⁠, reframing it not as a random free-fall, but a necessary disruption that occurs when aspects of the self that have been suppressed, forgotten, or neglected beg to come forward.

📖 Find the meaning in this part of your story.

We’ll help you make sense of why you’re going through this transition at this moment in your life. Your new chapter grows directly from the ashes of what you went through, and together, we’ll gather wisdom from what’s ending: the lessons and boundaries it left you with, the old ways of being that have run their course, and the new ways of being that are emerging in their place.

🌱 Create structure for the in-between.

Identity crises tend to follow recognizable phases and patterns. We’ll walk you through what to expect from each stage—particularly the “messy middle” or in-between. Here, it’s normal to feel stuck, directionless, and restless—and it’s normal for your typical plans for “pushing through” not to work. Instead, we’ll help you build a trellis: a grounding structure that supports you as you slowly grow into your next chapter.

🧭 Shift from forcing certainty to following curiosity.

Our world rewards certainty and control—but times of identity crisis call for curiosity and receptivity. New directions slowly take shape beneath the surface, and they can appear as glimmers of desire, unexpected interests, or unfamiliar ways of being that suddenly appeal. We’ll help you reorient toward curiosity for this season of change and listen for the unexpected signposts that may point toward your next direction.

✅ What this workshop is:

This is a space to find meaning out of what you’re experiencing; uncover the possibilities that are present; and touch clarity in the midst of change.

It’s a space for curiosity and possibility⁠—a space to meet yourself exactly where you’re at, without needing to change it⁠⁠—and a space to feel less alone in the process.

❎ What this workshop isn’t

This isn’t therapy or a support group; a space to process active trauma; or a space to address acute mental health concerns.

Here, we believe that disruption is necessary for transformation⁠—and we won’t be offering a “quick fix,” “magic solution,” or “simple ten point plan” to move through your identity crisis.

this is a community experience

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this is a community experience 〰️

Periods of transition can feel destabilizing—and it helps to know we’re not alone. That’s why community, camaraderie, and conversation are cornerstones of this workshop experience.

When you sign up, you get:

The live two-hour Zoom workshop.

Our live virtual session includes education, facilitated group discussion, and hands-on coaching exercises.

The video recording.

48 hours after the live session ends, you’ll get access to the workshop recording—yours to revisit anytime for one year.

The workshop slide deck.

After the session, you’ll be sent the workshop slide deck as a PDF. It’s yours to keep!

meet your facilitator

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meet your facilitator 〰️

Hailey Magee helps people outgrowing identities built on approval, achievement, and others’ expectations step into a more vital and self-trusting life.

When the old scripts no longer fit⁠—often, during periods of burnout, loss, identity crisis, and life transition⁠—Hailey’s work helps people bring the life they've been living into alignment with the person they're becoming⁠. ICF-credentialed and certified by Erickson International, Hailey brings over a decade of experience supporting individuals, groups, and organizations through periods of meaningful change.

Her debut bookStop People Pleasing and Find Your Power (Simon & Schuster) has been translated into over 15 languages, and her work has been featured inThe New York Times, The Gottman Institute, and Vox.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Within 24 hours of your purchase, you’ll receive an email from me (hailey@haileymagee.com) with all of the log-in information for the workshop.

  • No problem! You’ll receive the workshop recording and slide deck via email within 48 hours after the live event ends.

    While community and connection is a big part of this workshop, you’ll still receive value from the exercises, education, and prompts in the recording.

  • Workshop tickets are not refundable. Even if you can’t attend live, you’ll still receive the workshop recording and slide deck via email afterwards.

  • My Zoom events are set up to provide a live meeting transcript during the workshop. If having the slide deck in advance of the session supports your accessibility needs, feel free to contact me and I’d be happy to provide it. Accessibility is important to me, so please be in touch if there are ways I can make this event more accessible to you.

  • Feel free to contact me.